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Choosing Your First Vibrator When You’re Over 50
Vibrators have become mainstream with young women today, but for those of us in our fifties and beyond, for most of our lives, they were still a taboo topic and sold only in seedier stores that we were too embarrassed to enter.
We are grateful to the ladies from Sex and the City who put rabbit vibes on every woman's radar. It made it okay to have a healthy dialogue about sex toys with our girlfriends. Shows like Grace and Frankie have championed the idea that women want and deserve orgasms, no matter their age.
If you have never used a vibrator, we are here to walk you through some of the more common types that we recommend depending on your wants and needs. Start with what you think appeals to you and then you can explore from there. There are so many styles, we have no doubt that you'll find one that works well for your body.
Benefits:
- Powerful direct clitoral stimulation
- Rechargeable, powerful, plastic with a silicone grip makes it easy to clean
- Strong clitoral orgasms for those who don’t want an insertable toy due to vaginal discomfort
- Easily fits between two bodies
Drawbacks:
- It is small and sleek so if you have mobility issues with your hands, this is probably not the vibrator for you
The Magic Wand Original or the Magic Wand Rechargeable
Benefits:
- Incredibly powerful, which is great if you have trouble reaching orgasm
- External only so it’s perfect for those with vaginal discomfort
- The plug-in version means you don’t have to worry about recharging or changing batteries
- The rechargeable version means you can use it anywhere you please
- Easy to hold and keep in place.
Drawbacks:
- If you need discreet this is not the vibe for you as the deep rumbly vibrations are fairly loud
- It is a bit heavier than other vibes at 1.2 lbs for the Original and 1.3 lbs for the rechargeable
We-Vibe Melt Pleasure Air Clitoral Stimulator
Benefits:
Sends intense air pulsations to your clitoris
External pleasure for those not wanting penetrative sex Stimulation is felt deep into the clitoral arms for intense orgasms
Slim design to slip comfortably between bodies during partnered sex
App compatible for partner play anywhere in the world
Drawbacks:
The Melt has a higher price point, however it is well worth the investment
Benefits:
Slim design for g-spot and clitoral pleasure
Flexible shaft
Warming feature that heats to a comfortable temperature
Dual motors to control your pleasure
Drawbacks:
Despite its flexible design, it may not simultaneously reach your clitoris and g-spot
First Time Tulip G-Spot Vibrator
Benefits:
Designed for seeking out your g-spot
Narrow arm and tip is great if you have vaginal tightness
Easy to control with simple dial at the base for on/off and speeds
Can also use it as an external clitoral vibrator
Budget friendly
Drawbacks:
The hard plastic is rigid and inflexible
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